We have positive expectations for a wellness relationship that guides you toward optimal wellness and assists you in creating balance in mind, body, and spirit. When you choose to partner with us, you should be familiar with the following guidelines.
Nature of our Divine Tantric Wellness Coaching Relationship
We invite you to think of your tantric journey as a process. Many people realize the benefits of Divine Tantric Wellness in a short time; however, to creating the foundation and framework to make tantric wellness a lifestyle may take several months to several years and beyond. So, we begin the Divine Tantric Wellness rites of passage process by recommending you make a personal vow to be open and work/play all aspects of the program you deem suitable to you.
We have a background and expertise in Tantric Wellness Coaching. You should be aware that the COACHING RELATIONSHIP IS IN NO WAY TO BE CONSIDERED OR CONSTRUED AS PSYCHOLOGICAL COUNSELING OR ANY TYPE OF THERAPY OR SERVE AS A MEDICAL DIAGONOSIS OR TREATMENT. You should also be aware that results cannot be guaranteed. By becoming a member/initiate and going through the process you agree that you are entering into tantric wellness coaching with an understanding that you are responsible for your own results. You do have the power to heal yourself. You also agree to hold the partnering tantric wellness practitioner/coach and partnering organization (if applicable) free of liability and responsibility for any adverse situations created as a direct or indirect result of specific referral or advice given by the practitioner/coach.
Right of Refusal
Any party may cancel the relationship for any reason, at any time, without repercussion. If during your Divine Tantric Wellness experience, you feel that the process is not making a difference in your life and/or doesn’t serve an entertaining purpose in your existence, please let us know and we will cheerfully end the relationship and will not correspond with you until/ unless you choose to reinstate your membership.
If we ever say or do anything that upsets you or doesn’t feel right please bring it to our attention so that we can resolve it as soon as possible. Our objective is to have a tantric coaching relationship that is fully open, honest, real, and trusting in our communication styles.
Gifts
As a practice, we don't put a price on the services we provide because one's optimal health and well-being is priceless. We do welcome gifts for our offerings as means to continue to bless and support you with wholistic wellness services. Therefore, you may note requested gift amounts in descriptions of our program offerings and memberships. Love offerings (gifts) grant highly favored membership into the Divine Tantric Wellness Community and includes educational materials/resources, eCoaching and complimentary Divine Tantric Wellness initiation ceremony (approximately 2 hours in duration/Rite). We love what we do and desire to do it with you. We understand you may be able to fulfill some of our desires (i.e. maintenance and upkeep and enhancement of our space, webdesign, personal assistance, travel accommodations), so we are sometimes open to bartering, sponsorships and partnerships. If interested, just ask. Note: We receive gifts not payments therefore a refund policy is not necessary.
Procedure
When you have made the decision to begin your tantric journey with membership into the Divine Tantric Wellness Community and have made us aware of your decision to proceed with the process, we will contact you for a brief interview/consultation where we will together determine if the program is right for you. Before your initial initiation ceremony we request that you successfully complete an introductory Divine Tantric Wellness course and send a good faith gift of at least $50 (via PayPal) to begin your journey and hold your appointment if you have one. If you desire to have a face-to-face (in-person) coaching session or initiation ceremony, you will meet your guide at the agreed upon day, time and place (or by teleconference if applicable). E-mail communication is part of your membership, if you wish to connect with us in between sessions with a challenge, a success, or an inquiry, we will make every attempt to respond to your call or e-mail within 72 hours. We are happy to provide this extra level of service at no charge.
YOUR Experience
Just as if you were to read an exciting book, it is sometimes best not to know exactly what is ahead of you. It is up to you to let us know the results and outcomes of your new found knowledge and applications. It is up to us, together, to make sure you have the resources and information to develop your tantric practice effectively. The Divine Tantric Wellness program is designed to provide you with a variety of wholistic wellness techniques to assist you in healing yourself and expanding your awareness, so that you may live the highest quality life possible and generate an overflow of energy to share with others. Divine Tantric Wellness initiations not only serve to introduce you to tantric applications and offer a space for you to experience blissful tantric energy but also provide time to debrief on past HomePlay TakeAway practice, ask and answer questions and determine next steps on your journey.
In our experience, almost every initiate/member will pass through periods of feeling completely high in the clouds (excited, passionate, invincible, and ecstatic blissful states) and other periods of feeling low in the valley (fearful, doubtful, tired or even resentful of the process). We are personally glad to see all of these times because they all form part of the necessary growth cycle. To you, some periods of tantric coaching may feel great and others you would rather do without. Overall however, the growth curve will be positive. Many initiates/members report some or all of the following: deeper connection with beloved, enhanced sexual pleasure, increased earnings, better use of time, better physical shape, better relationships, better health, more free time, and always an overall huge increase in their sense of control and peace of mind, body, and spirit.
Confidentiality
All of our interactions (conversations, e-mail, faxes, session happenings etc.) will remain strictly confidential, meaning that we will not share any information provided by you to anyone without your prior consent. The exception to this will be that, from time to time, we may use a situation from your coaching experience as an analogy in another member’s session, or in a public setting such as a newsletter or seminar. In this case, we will not use your name and will refer to the situation in such a way that you will not be identifiable to others.
We recognize that certain information of a confidential manner may be relayed during the tantric coaching process and/or initiations. We will not at any time, either directly or indirectly, use this information for our benefit or disclose said information to anyone else without specific approval from you (excludes disclosure of illegal or unethical activities). We request that you use discretion when discussing your experiences with others as the process can be very personal and open you to vulnerable situations.
Commitment and Integrity
We will keep our commitments. If, in exceptional circumstances only, we are unable to keep a commitment, we will notify you of this as soon as we know of the need for change. We will coach you at the highest standards of integrity, honesty and respect. As we are adamant about delivering high value to all initiates/members, we will let you know if it is felt that our involvement is not likely to make a positive difference in your life and progress on your tantric journey.
Nonjudgmental Attitude
We are not in the business of being a judge of right or wrong. Our position is to coach you to get the high quality life of wholistic wellness you desire. As there may be times when you will share information that may make you vulnerable, I assure you that we will treat your choices and actions (past, present, or future) with respect.
Tenacity about your progress
As you have us to assist you in personal grow and development, we believe, some of the most valuable tantric coaching we can deliver to you comes through the tough places you may be unwilling to visit on your own. We offer honest feedback, challenging questions, assignments designed to aid you in gaining insight, and accountability to your vow to self to create a space conducive to having you achieve new heights through Tantra.
HomePlay TakeAways
We strongly advocate for HomePlay TakeAway practice. We feel it serves as a great supplement to your initiation experience. It enhances your progress by granting a deeper overstanding of Tantra and reinforces what you learn and practice during your initiations to guide and aid you in making Tantra a lifestyle. With this being said, we also affirm that however, HomePlay TakeAways (assignments) are a progressive part of the program, they are optional and ultimately up to you to complete as desired. The bottom line is that initiates who diligently complete their assignments outside of our sessions get far more out the coaching program (no pressure 😉 ). It is much easier to build a house on top of a solid foundation, so each step affects the next one. We also have more fun watching initiates have great outcomes than average ones!
Availability
Initiations are made available by appointment only and are usually conducted between the hours of 9a and 9p, Tuesday through Saturday, and 9a and 3p on Mondays. You may contact us outside of our scheduled initiations if you would prefer not to wait until your next scheduled initiation. You are encouraged to stay in touch via e-mail as this provides an accessible way for us to monitor your progress, and add extra insights during your tantric coaching journey.
Timeliness
It’s important to keep our appointments for your benefit, as well as the benefit of other initiates. We prepare specifically for your initiation ceremony for a great time prior to your scheduled appointment. As a courtesy, if you need to reschedule our appointment, please give us 24 hours notice, where possible. If we need to reschedule our appointment, we will try to give you at least 24 hours notice as well. We would like for you to be on time for your appointment (right on time preferred, no more than 15 minutes early is okay). If you are delayed for an appointment, please call to let us know. We do our best to schedule appointments with enough buffer time on either side as to not be rushed, but in some situations a delayed appointment will mean that our session will have to be cut short. Please allow yourself an additional hour of play time for your initiation as we generally go with the flow of the session without constant attention to time.
Complimentary initiations can be scheduled at your convenience, each lasting approximately 2 hours in duration. We recommend a minimum of 72 hours between initiations for beginners. Some initiates enjoy combined initiations. Feel free to e-mail us for support between initiations if desired. Note: It may take months to fully absorb, process and practice the principles and techniques taught to a degree of comfort and mastery. We advocate for self-paced practice.
Feedback
Whenever possible, we would appreciate getting your feedback/affirmations as much as possible. Let us know when something is working for you, as well as when something is not; the earlier in the process, the better. When you want specific or more in-depth feedback from us on something you are working on, please ask. Although telepathy/intuition (we prefer not to assume) is a somewhat necessary part of our work, direct feedback is the easiest way to ensure that you get what you desire.
Referrals
Some of our initiates choose to refer our services to others. We like to ask for referrals outside of your initiations. The focus of our work is exclusively on you and the results you desire. Whether you choose to refer others to us or not, we would like you to know how the referral process works. We will first have a consultation with anyone who is interested in membership into the Divine Tantric Wellness Community so that we can together determine if there is a good fit between his/her desires and our practice/offerings. If there is a good fit, he/she will become initiates. If there isn’t a good fit, we will do our best to refer your referral to a coach who will better fit their needs and goals. In all cases, we do our best to place your referral, so feel free to refer anyone who is looking to improve their life and we will attempt to get the right coach for their needs. Referrals form a substantial part of our practice and they come from initiates/members whose trust we have built, so you can be assured that we will take good care of anyone you choose to refer.
Please use discretion when sharing your personal initiation experiences with others as everyone’s experience is different and we would prefer initiates come with no preconceived ideas and expectations for his/her Divine Tantric Wellness journey. Note: We will not disclose any information about you or your experiences with those whom you refer, nor will we confirm or deny your involvement in the Divine Tantric Wellness Community without your prior informed consent.